Jamie Otis Hehner on Instagram: "When I was my daughter’s age I spent my weekends at jail to see my “dad.” I remember being nervously patted down before I could enter to see him. I’d be scared around the other inmates visiting their family…I’m so thankful my kids have absolutely no idea what that experience is like.🙏💗 I grew up fearing men. My mom told me they always want one thing — they love you and then leave you. It’s what she experienced so I don’t blame her for trying to warn me.🥺 But I