What does “lacking intentionality in dating” look like and why is it so dangerous? Well, there are many ways someone can show they‘re not being intentional in their dating approach (watch the full clip for some examples). And the reason this is SO dangerous is because, if we‘re not careful and brave enough to ask the difficult questions (like where things are going), we can end up wasting an enormous amount of time in a situationship that ultimately doesn‘t align with our deeper needs and values